Teachings

The Hardest Form Of Love

The Act Of Forgiveness

Faith works by Love

Galations 5:6

In order to manifest with a specific target you must operate in the principles of faith. Now faith works through Love and one of the hardest acts of love is forgiveness. It can be a great challenge to use this form of love when one desires to hold on and nurture the pain they feel. Some how we feel justified in holding on to it or simply don’t know how to actually get rid of it from with in themselves. As I see it, it is trapped in the body and will manifest its self in your life over and over again and thats when we seek relief from it in the forms of distraction such as over eating, over working, over spending, drug use and a habit complaining. Now we must be led of the Lord and turn to Him. He is Full of Mercy. This is our starting point of forgiveness and allows us to master this very act of Love. Now, you might be thinking, how do I do this. What do I do? Well simple call on Him, for the scriptures say, everyone who calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved. (acts 2:21). I do know this is a loaded statement for in the western culture calling on a name is simple stating a persons name. duh. However, this is not so with God. His name is in direct reference to His character. One of Gods many characters is Mercy. He’s actually Full of it. Mercy is tender loving care. Its the softer side of God. Forgiveness is Mercy. It even feels in our bodies as a soft emotion. The moment you allow yourself to forgive your body immediately takes a deep breath and has a sense of lightness. Our bodies are way smarter than we are. It knows to breath to calm the central nervous system. This allows for the two hemispheres of the brain to sync, lowers your brain waves and lets the heart begin to speak. Who’s it speaking to? God. Allow God to cultivate this in you and begin today.

Steps of Forgiveness

• Repent, which means, turn to God. God is Love. Therefore you are turning to Love and more specifically Mercy, which is tender loving care.
• Acknowledge your hurt and Allow yourself to forgive by being willing. This is a direct act of your will.
• Your body will being to ab take deep breath and calm your central nervous system.
• Now see the person in your imagination and have them ask you a series of the following questions. ” I was wrong, will you please forgive me?” ” I know what I did to you was wrong and I hurt you, will you be willing to forgive me?”
• In your imagination and in your spirit and in your Heart, feel as if you are releasing the pain. Add eye movement therapy and touch therapy to further assist you. This is also called, Havening. I have personally used this and can testify to its greatness.