Ok, why do you want this person back? Oh I know you just love them soooo much that the sun and the moon rise together to sing their glory.
It’s true, why be with someone if they aren’t the most important person in the world to you?
So the break up happened and you’re now on the hunt to find a solution. You feel the deep intense loss and absence of their presence. Their love is gone and you have to hold all yours in.
First things first, ask the Lord to restore and reconcile. Please Lord restore this relationship is a very quick and simple prayer. He’s a master at this, what do you think He did between Himself and all of mankind?
Go over the accounts and steps that lead to the break up. Allow God to illuminate your part and be willing to accept it and learn new techniques to move forward. Forgive your person and yourself. We are just human beings after all.
Second is your part with your imagination. There is a really good book titled Pussy Whip by Lanie Stevens. I wasn’t gonna read this book because of the title when I first heard of it but I’m glad I did. She’s the person who taught me about how to hold the person in my imagination and speak to them in a loving positive way. I was already doing this but I was using it to create fake fights 🙂 I was so stupid it never occurred to me to use it to my advantage. Neville Goddard puts it very simply by stating if all we have to do is believe what are we doing by not believing?
If you’re blocked on the phone like I had been you will want to start by imaging your person texting you. What I did was, every time I looked at my phone, I’d say to myself, oh look he texted me and I’d imagine his text and it was a simple “hi” text and then I’d smile to create a good feeling. Don’t look at your phone or the blank screen with a disappointing feeling. That’s looking at current reality and will mess up your manifestation. Feels delusional when you first try this. Kinda weird and scary but if you desire them to text you, it’s best to play along and act like you did as a kid. Play some make believe. It totally works. You can remember what a text from them looks like when you first check your phone? It’s the same thing except you’re creating it in your mind as if it’s happening now. Close your eyes if you have to. Close your eyes, pick up your phone and say to yourself, oh they texted, smile,Feel a good feeling or relief and see in your imagination a quick simple text from them. Do this a couple times to get the hang of it.
I like things to happen fast. So I would forgive and be grateful to God for having brought us together in the first place. 7 billion people on the planet and I had the opportunity to fall in love with this particular person. That’s something that should be honored. I used ho oponopono for the fasted way to create forgiveness. Sometimes though, there’s something God really wants to illuminate to you personally about yourself, the situation and the person. There might be other steps involved. Always seek God. He’s got insight that we just don’t know about.
Also, what I come to the realize is what I actually desire the most from my guy is to feel his love for me. The quickest way for me is to hold him in my imagination standing in front of me and we repeat this phrase together. I feel so loved by you. Then I feel the love I’m desiring coming from him into me and my love going out from me into him. I do this till I feel satisfied then go about my day.
During difficult situations between he and I, I have him say all kinds of apologetic words that make me feel cared for or I simply state, I feel so cared for by you. That’s the target feeling I’m going for and it’s fast. I was being challenged by visually creating events to ruminate over so I just went with the feeling and the statement. Works wonderfully.
Many law of attraction/law of assumption teachers or manifesting teachers say practice self love. This is very good and important but I feel that it’s missing something….like the very love you desire to feel from your person. That’s why I use those particular statements. I feel so loved by you, I feel so cared for by you. When I have us saying it together, I can feel us both feeling it from each other. I can love myself and care for myself but it’s the reciprocated affection in particular that I am wanting and creating by those statements.
Sometimes I catch myself looking at the circumstances and deliberately state out loud, I walk by faith and not by sight. This helps stop the train of thought and refocus on what I want.
I also have to remind myself that not every feeling I have is correct. There’s a love coach on YouTube and she says get into your feelings and tell him and then lean back. This was problematic for me because I was mostly feeling like shit. So I had to add the question, what do I want to feel? This gave me a word and a definition that I could use to ponder the feeling more. It made me more in control and responsible to use my faith and manifesting powers more effectively.
There’s a very good video from Ashley Ducey on the steps she took to manifest a beautiful relationship with her guy. She used the scripting technique. I also use this technique with success.
Here’s Lanies YouTube channel.
These are all regular people just like all of us that I have watched and learned from. No paid affiliate links here. This is real life usage of these people’s faith in use. We all have this ability to manifest. We are doing it by default. If you have faith or the belief something won’t happen, which is manifesting in its self, why not use that faith or belief to your advantage and believe that it will.