We come to this earth with a default program set by God. We learn what these programs are and how to use them. We commonly call them thoughts and images, feelings and emotions and actions and reactions. How you grew up will determine the dominate focal point and subconscious voice. If you grew up with a critical parent, the critical part in you will be dominate. It will be your view point for manifesting. You’ll perceive negative and the thing that’s missing in an empty feeling type way. You may counter act it by trying please or ease that voice. For example, as a child your parent came in your room, saw that it was a mess and screamed clean up this room. As child you shove stuff anywhere to get it off the floor. The parent comes in and screams or appears angry or annoyed you picked up on a feeling they expressed. It’s now in you as voice stating that you did it wrong. In the child’s eyes, cleaning was getting things off the floor. She heard, pick things up. In the parents eyes, cleaning was placing the items in certain areas, in certain ways. The child develops the subconscious rumination of, I can’t do anything right or I’m always wrong. Also associates cleaning with fear. Which is a perception and feeling with in the self called criticism. And because that voice becomes subconscious, it starts to be the focal point and that person now starts to attract situations in which they perceive how they themselves can’t do anything right or they’re always wrong. This is manifesting by default.
The only way to shut that voice up is by speaking differently. Purposely creating and manifesting new new thoughts and feelings. During the course of your life time you will have to learn that you don’t silence these voices by trying to please it. You curb it using its counter force which, in this example is gratitude. It’s literally like flipping a switch.
If gratitude doesn’t come easy for you, then you didn’t grow up with it. You’ll have to manually input it by doing gratitude exercises. The Gottman Institute states that for every one critical statement, 5 gratitude statements must be in place to balance it out. If your personal relationships are shot to hell, and you’re trying to manifest a beautiful one, check your critical voice. Take 100% responsibility for how you think, feel and act and demand of yourself some discipline. Do the work. And it’s all internal.
Make your list of complaints and for everyone make 5 grateful things to counter act it. If your list is long, that’s a lot of grateful things you’ll have to find. And if you’re not used to thinking and feeling this way, it can be exhausting and you become over flooded with emotions. The body will counter act it. It likes to have things status quo. So go slow.
Allow yourself only a few or one major complaint. Then counter it with a few or one equally powerful grateful statements. After doing this for a period of time, you get tired of complaining in general and see that the critical view really was never that big of a deal to begin with. Why? Because you have been practicing the art and act of being in a state of Love. Gratitude is Love. God is Love. Gratitude is God. Faith works through Love. And this will give you the advantage in your manifesting pursuits. Because I’m assuming you want to manifest things you love. You can manifest things or circumstances you hate just as easily. So tip the scales in your life’s favor and remember if you can’t lift the heaviness of 5/1 ratio don’t make your list so long.
Also, remember what you focus on is your reality. This applies to yourself as well. If you have a complaint about you, do the balancing 5/1 ratio. If you tell yourself you’re fat, you best find 5 things about your body that are grate. When you are first starting out with this and it feels overwhelming try one statement of gratitude that feels powerful. It’s a huge blast of love from your heart. This is the Law of Attraction at its core and it’s a magnetic field produced right from your heart and it will bring the thing right to you.
Start implementing the art of repenting. It’s the inward checks and balances of the self and it is turing away from negativity and turning to God (God is Love). Turning to the aspect of God (Love) you need at that particular time. Forgiveness, kindness, gratitude, joy. He’ll put it in you. Let God be your focal point and ask for His help. For yourself and everything else in your life.
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