Is the use of your Pronouns
This #1 component is vital. You know your subconscious creates and dictates your perception of life. If you are using the he or she to describe your person, your subconscious will pick up on that and go into its bank of memories and locate the original he or she. It lumps all males into the he category, same for females. I my self had one hell of a time rewiring this one and its still an on going process it seems. That is why I feel its the #1 component.
What if you were like me and had a only brother as the original he. What if you looked at the new he as your old he and it was brother just doing what older brothers do but you weren’t fully aware with your skewed perception. Then the subconscious voice of the phrases such as: he doesn’t like me, he pushes me, he ignores me, he never wants to do anything with me, he’s so mean to me and such will be ruminating inside of you until you are consciously aware of them and take full action to reframe and create new loving ones to manifest a beautiful relationship. The kind you really desire. This is full intentional manifestation here. It’s quite a feat.
Now, think of your person, sit with your thoughts, write any and all that come to the surface and observe if you are using a general term like the use of the pronoun he. Ask yourself, who is the original he or she. Your mind will tell you in words or images. Clear out any negative emotions and reframe. I use the havening technique to remove negative emotions and reframing is simply coming up with new meanings to the event that your memory is showing you. Here’s an example, it’s not that he didn’t like you, its that he has his own insecurities and is acting them out.
Now, go get yourself a pen and paper and start making a list of things he now does with a loving feeling attached to it. You can fake it with a smile, but remember your subconscious is picking up on this too, so really tap into your heart for this exercise. This is the creation part. Run with it, have fun with it. Write things down that you’ve always wanted to experience, or things that would normally occur if your original he was loving. Something you would experience as a child. You know what to do, you get the picture. Enjoy it.
Share in the comments below if you found anything in your mind and what types of phrases will you be creating. I’m interested in what you observe and do. Thank you
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